Sex Is a Big Deal

Sex is a big deal for both of you – but what’s going through your girlfriend’s mind?

Trust: Most girls want to have sex with someone they love, care about and trust, taking things slowly and bonding first.

Naked truth: Lots of girls find getting their kit off in front of someone else really scary - if you think she looks great, tell her.

Baby worries: Most girls under 18 don’t want to get pregnant – carrying a condom shows you respect her and are being sensible.

Foreplay: Sex is an emotional experience for girls – they want to feel loved and respected. Spend time kissing and cuddling and don’t rush into anything until you’re both ready.

No pressure: Always take her feelings into account, never pressuring her into sex, even if you’ve done it before.

Datinf Tips For Singles

There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is, "Would you like to go out with me?"
By saying this:

- You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
- You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
- You imply a formal date. You are making a move on her. The pressure is on her.
- If she says "no," you are never sure whether to ask her again for another time. Was it, "No, I don't want to go out with you," or "No, I want to go out with you but I'm busy that night."
- You literally sound like a junior high kid asking a girl out on his first date.

The right way to ask a single girl out is, "Let's get together and do something sometime." Memorize these words. By saying this, you give an impression of a casual meeting. No big deal. Friends getting to know each other. Not a formal date. If you say this, her response will let you know whether she wants to date you or not.

If she is interested, she will respond in the positive, but also her tone will be positive. The expression on her face will be positive. She may even lead the conversation to making a specific time to do something. If you do get a positive response, you can either pursue the conversation and arrange to meet on a casual date or leave it until the next time you meet. You know she wants to get together and she will be waiting, now that you have teased her with talk of a date but offered no specific plans. You are being elusive and playing hard to get. Her anticipation works in your favor.

If she does not want to go out with you, her verbal response may be "no" or it may even be "yes" to save your feelings, but her tone, her facial expression, and her desire to drop the subject will let you know she is not interested. Don't pursue it further.

The beauty of this exact phrase is:

- You are not set up for rejection. After all, you have not really asked her out. You've made a statement.
- You are throwing out an offer. The implication is that you are doing her a favor. She is not doing you a favor by going out with you.
- It implies a casual get-together to get to know each other, not a formal date.
- You know for sure whether she wants to date you or not.
- You aren't asking her. You are making a statement which says something about you. You are the type of person that likes to do things with friends, and of course she would like to participate. After all, there is no pressure. You are a confident, friendly, fun-loving person who is doing things.

Now re-read that phrase. "Let's get together and do something sometime." See how much better it is than asking a question that may get you a wrong answer?

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Just abruptly look at your watch if you're wearing one, or if you don't have one ask for the time right in the middle of your conversation. Once you get the time make up an excuse that you have to go right away. Be polite and tell her how much you enjoyed this conversation and that it was your pleasure to meet someone like her and walk away.

Just as she will be all confused about what is going on, wondering if she said something to offend you or if perhaps you don't like her because you didn't ask her out or you didn't even ask for her phone number, come back as though you forgot something and say:
"You know what? If we ever wanted to do this again, and laugh and have a good time together we don't even know how to get a hold of each other. And that would be such a tragedy. It would be a definite loss for me, but perhaps if you think about it and realize how much you enjoy having intriguing conversations, laughing and having a good time, you will know that it would be a loss for you too. So, what do you figure we should do about it?"

Kissing

Once you’ve got that first, awkward kiss out of the way, you can practice getting great at kissing!

Kissing’s one of the best bits about a relationship. As you get more used to kissing each other, you can try it with tongues or even kiss her cheeks, nose and neck in between snogs.

Be gentle when using your tongue for the first time – you want to make sure she likes it rather than sticking it down her throat!

Kissing can lead to more serious stuff, but it doesn’t have to. If she’s pushing you to take things further, talk to someone you trust.

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You: "Why don't we continue this somewhere else and see how much we can enjoy each other's company?"
In response she might offer a change of venue (if she mumbles "your place or mine?", then boy! either she's real easy or you're real good:), but more probably she's gonna offer a phone number so the two of you can set up a meeting later over the phone. Notice, that YOU DIDN'T ASK for her phone number, it was HER IDEA to give it to you, thus framing you in her mind very differently from when you would have asked for the number. The first instance creates in her mind a picture of "I gave him my number which must mean I like him" while the second creates an opposite picture of "He asked for my number which must mean he likes me yawn, yeah he's nice, next!":)

Get a Girl

Tips on how to get a girl attracted!

1. Target and Engage : Get her phone number. You need to Tease to Please her. With a planned approach, you tease her slightly, and then walk away with her phone number. (And, yes, it IS that easy.)
2. Contact her and set a "date": Call her a few days later. (At least 3-4). Then use the Tease to Please on her some more, and close for a date. Don't settle for a weak commitment, either. Get it firm. It's better to have her back out now than waste more of your time later on. There are too many fish in the sea to get caught up on one.
   
3. Meet her: Your first "date" is nothing more than getting together at a coffee shop so you can bust her chops and tease her some more, to see if she's someone you could hang out with. You keep it short (no more than 45 minutes). And you spend no more than $5.00. You've got too many women to meet to waste your time on "potential."
   
4. Re-contact : If the first meeting went well, you call her a few days later and setup something a little longer that will allow you to continue your seduction.